It’s scary when people don’t understand themselves for who they really are. And how they believe that they are someone that they are not. Just because you describe yourself as a sincere, honest, caring, nice girl with good intentions does not mean that you truly are a sincere, honest, caring, nice girl with good intentions. You are lying to yourself at that point and there is something WRONG with you. I’ve come to realize that the way people describe themselves is rarely ever an accurate account of their true personalities. This is why I try to refrain from describing myself, in order to avoid that mistake.. I’d rather have someone get to know the person I am through my actions rather than try and convince them of who I am with empty words. Well I don’t think this applies to me too much because I don’t claim to be someone I am not. I know I’m not a nice girl so I won’t go around parading that lie. But still I think people need to stop being in denial of who they really are. I hope this made sense.